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Roots of Betrayal: Split Ends & Broken Bonds... REBORN

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My core remains unshaken.  My roots – though visibly split – still hold powerful strength within. In certain presence, my instinct remains unchanged: To connect, to touch, to embrace – a primal bond unbroken. This isn't vulnerability – it's proof of my evolved nature. My foundation grows stronger, more resilient every day. What splits on the surface only reveals a deeper root.

WIC 362.1: Visits are MANDATORY

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WIC 362.1: Visits are MANDATORY SW TEXT: "Confirm by Sunday 6pm" MOM TEXT WEDNESDAY: "let this text message be my confirmation" RESULT: Minor not produced. DCFS claims "mom didn't confirm." This is visit #48 cancelled. Legal guardian paid $_____/month in Title IV-E funds. Where’s the oversight? Case #: _____ Public record. OCR complaint filed. If DCFS did this to you, comment COUNTY + DATE. We’re building the federal audit. #RPPAudit #WIC3621 #WeSortThis

I Thought RPP Was About My Kid. It’s About Auditing Foster Care Money

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" I Thought RPP Was About My Kid. It’s About Auditing Foster Care Money ." LA County gets $5k-$10k/month per child in Title IV-E funds for legal guardianships. WIC 366.3 requires courts to audit if guardians follow visitation. My guardian cancelled 3 visits. Court never asked. Where’s the $10k going if they won’t let me see my kids? Public record case #: CK97904C If this happened to you, comment below. We’re filing OCR complaints together.

People Who Look Like Me

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HELLO. My kids were kidnapped by look-a-likes. People who look like me. I am good. I will take my chances. I saw a post about the Supreme Court gutting voting rights. I did not agree with the gutting. Then I got mad. Because what they just gutted was meaning to be for my family. For families like mine. For cultures like ours. For anyone — anyone — who has been dealt the corrupt blow from DCFS. The Supreme Court took power from communities. DCFS took power from living rooms. What is the difference? One makes headlines. The other makes orphans. I walked into hearings where every badge, every title, every nodding head looked like me. Black. Brown. “Trauma-informed.” “Culturally competent.” And I still walked out without my babies. Vonyae. A. B. So I ask: If we can fight for the right to vote for our leaders, why can we not fight for the right to raise our children? I am not anti-Black. I am anti-separation. I am not anti-worker. I am anti-wreckage. I am not anti-system. I am p...

Finding My Way: A Reunification Journey

 Reunification Chronicles: A Journey of Healing and Growth As I sit here, reflecting on the journey that has brought me to this moment, I am filled with a mix of emotions. There is the joy of rediscovery, the pain of past hurts, and the hope for a brighter future. My blog, Mother For Change, has been a sanctuary for me, a place where I can share my story, my struggles, and my triumphs with the world. The Beginning It all started with a desire to reconnect with my roots, to understand the complexities of my past, and to find a sense of belonging. As a mother, I wanted to create a legacy for my children, a story of resilience, strength, and love. But life had other plans. The Journey The path to reunification is not an easy one. It is filled with twists and turns, ups and downs. There are moments of pure joy, like the first time I held my child in my arms, and moments of heart-wrenching pain, like the day I realized I had lost my way. But through it all, I have learned to hold on to ...

Laughter, Growth, and YouTube: My Mother For Change Story

 I am not a morning person, but motherhood has taught me to embrace the early hours... and by embrace, I mean hit the snooze button repeatedly while praying for coffee. But in all seriousness, motherhood has been a journey of growth, learning, and laughter. And I'm excited to share that journey with you on my YouTube channel, Mother For Change! As I share my story on Mother For Change, I invite you to subscribe to my YouTube channel and join the conversation. With 37 subscribers and growing, our community is dedicated to healing, growth, and empowerment.  From reunification to motherhood, I share my experiences, insights, and expertise on topics that matter most. Whether you're a fellow mother, a reunification warrior, or simply someone seeking inspiration, my channel is here for you.  So why subscribe? Here are just a few reasons:  ðŸŽ¥ Exclusive content: Get access to videos, live streams, and behind-the-scenes footage not available anywhere else.  ðŸŒ„  Comm...

Institutional Domestic Violence: My Story & Your Rights

My kids were taken by DCFS, and I have faced institutional domestic violence through their manipulation and lies. My daughter was even burned while in their care. I am still fighting for justice. What is Institutional Domestic Violence? Institutional domestic violence occurs when institutions like courts, law enforcement, and social services abuse their power, causing emotional harm. Your Rights You are protected from discrimination based on race, color, national origin, disability, sex, religion, and more. You have freedom from institutional domestic violence in settings like housing, workplace, school, voting, healthcare, and public spaces. Report Abuse 1. Online form: Submit a report on the US Department of Justice website 2. Phone: Call (202) 514-3847 or 1-855-856-1247 (toll-free) 3. Mail: Send a printed report form to the US Department of Justice Civil Rights Division Get Help National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 Local legal aid offices or lawyers Poem: Institutional...

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